Beyond what books can say

A book can tell you what people have learnt about a plant, people from the past and people of the present. The more books you read, the more you may realise that when you next go to meet a plant, you are meeting it through your head: through intellectual knowledge, through phrases you have learnt and repeat.

Sometimes those phrases matter a great deal. They describe the plant’s shape, where it grows, when it flowers, and what others have noticed over the many years they have spent sitting and being with plants. Book knowledge does matter, but it is not the plant.

Today, I want you to choose one plant and stay with it for a while, if you can. This can be hard to do. Let the names, explanations, categories and uses be like a pair of shoes you take off before entering a sacred place.

If you can do that, notice what the leaves are doing in the light. Look for a small change in colour, a torn edge, a bud tucked slightly beneath another leaf. Listen to the sounds around you. Feel your attention slow as finer details come into view, ones you might once have walked past. Maybe the ground is dry on one side and damp on the other. Perhaps one stem leans towards a gap in the hedge while another grows closer to the earth.

Try not to explain these things or find reasons for them; just look. Reading gathers knowledge from words and helps us ask better questions. But a living plant is also where a particular patch of ground, the weather and the light come together in this present moment. A page can never record that. It cannot tell you what you will notice when you give this one plant your full attention.

A book is a lens, a piece of glass to look at the world through, shaped by one person’s perspective. Domei is about discovering your own.

Your observation sits alongside careful reading and gives it somewhere to meet the world. Later, when you look up a question that needs answering, you may find that others have described something similar to what you experienced.

You may also find you have more to learn. Either way, you begin with the plant in front of you. And when it gets uncomfortable, when you fidget and want to move, stay a little longer and see what that shows you.

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